The Confidence Gap: check this out.

A review of personnel records at Hewlett-Packard found that women applied for a promotion only when they believed they met 100 percent of the qualifications listed for the job. Men were happy to apply when they thought they could meet 60 percent of the job requirements.

 

Two ends of my holiday table. #Passover

Two ends of my holiday table:  one spans nine decades, the other is approaching just nine weeks.

These are the new guests at my Passover celebration tonight:  my new grandbaby and my parents, now 90 and 92.    

We took note of the unexpected Dylan meets Bubbesimilarities between them. 

They are much loved, and they couldn’t be happier to see each other.  

Their time of life requires special care, special food, special equipment. 

The sound of the baby’s whooshing baby bouncer sounds eerily like my mother’s oxygen compressor. 

Their needs seem to change hourly, as mysterious aches and pains emerge and then resolve themselves, sometimes with medication, sometimes just with patience.

Tonight’s theme is liberation.  As I watch the baby fight to find his fingers and soothe himself, I think about another shared wish with his great-grandparents, the desire for comfort, strength, and independence.

 

 

 

Ding, dong, the #SAT is…not quite dead. My 2 cents on where College Board and Coleman got it right, plus a roll-up of some press.

He'll be blamed for doing too much, for doing too little, and for thinking that he can swap the Darth Vader cloak of the College Board for the Technicolor Dreamcoat of Sal Khan. But really, let's give a major t/h to David Coleman for acknowledging … [Continue reading]

One thousand to-lists later, and @Beesy is a close miss. Can’t somebody build a better to-do manager?

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I know i'm not alone in struggling to find a good way to manage my project lists, everything from the big ongoing stuff to the daily to-do. I know I'm not alone because I've read endless articles about getting organized. And tried dozens of … [Continue reading]

I am sincerely sorry to miss the first snowstorm of 2014. Really.

Fearing that my flight to Florida to visit my folks would be cancelled, I left yesterday. And so, thanks Jet Blue, here I sit, 62 degrees at 8am, devouring every word and image of the storm. NYC is never more beautiful than in the snow. And I miss … [Continue reading]

The fine art of UNFINISHING, or why I still like MOOCs.

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I intend to run for 30 minutes today.  But it is hot and I stop at 25. I pick up the latest issue of The Economist, drink deeply of an article on Mandela's legacy, marvel at a stimulating reconsideration of Ozymandias, enjoy a pointed editorial … [Continue reading]

My Carrie would never be Istanbul bureau chief. Why I am still grousing about #Homeland finale.

Homeland should have ended with Brody's death and some lingering close-up on our Carrie and her dark future:  pregnant, out of work, her relationships shredded. The show itself could have ended there, and that would have been fine with me.  But … [Continue reading]

The weekend ends with great sorrow at the loss of Isaiah O’Kane, Hunter ’17.

We are deeply sorry to share the sad news that a beloved member of our community, Isaiah O'Kane, Hunter '17, died today from a serious subway accident that occurred on Saturday.  We all mourn this untimely passing of a wonderful young man. We … [Continue reading]

Family chef bows to peer pressure and prepares two kinds of latkes. Here’s my annotated menu. Happy Thanksgiving!

Meatballs (Lois' famous recipe) Garlic knots (only in NYC where pizza dough is available on every corner) Crudities (so I can devour the hummus)  ~~~~~~~~~ Roasted cauliflower/baby arugula/radicchio with smoked salmon on 7 grain … [Continue reading]

It’s good to be home.

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Every since LADY AT THE OK CORRAL was published in March, 2013, I have been on the road at least several times a month.  I've been up and down the west coast, east coast, and a lot of stops in between.  I'm happily grounded now, at least for a … [Continue reading]